
I really like the pictures that I can take while standing in my kitchen doorway.
I'm feeling better as the day goes on. I slept well last night and was spared the morning send off because #2 Son still had a fever and sore throat. All I had to do was roll over and call his school and then it was back to sleep for another hour.
By midday, he was nearly cured and a little upset by my refusal to let him go out and play:
I wouldn't let him go further than the porch and he felt boxed in.
The beautiful day had the neighborhood hopping with activity. By late afternoon, I had officially become the cranky oldish lady on the block.
Doesn't every block have one? We had Mrs. H. on the block where I grew up. Cross her lawn and you may or may not live to regret it.
Here's how I earned my new rep:
I was on the porch knitting. #2 Son was inside, the dogs were crated (one inside, one in the garage) because the contractors were working upstairs. I glanced up and noticed three two year olds, a stroller with a baby and a wagon with yet another baby coming my way. They were loosely accompanied by two men and one woman. I say loosely because the "adults" had their heads together in conversation and the toddlers were on foot, well ahead of the parade. The toddlers were busy picking dandelions - not a task I would discourage - but they, being tiny and untethered, did not keep to the sidewalk. They gamboled back and forth into the yards without correction.
Well I saw them coming and nearly held my breath. Would the so called parents (who had full view of me) keep them in check? Well, of course not, what was I thinking? As they reached my driveway, the little ones spied my garden and since my garden looks more interesting than another dandelion, they flew right towards it. And did I just sit and watch? No, I didn't, I stood up and that did not stop them and before I could think of what to do, something inside of me kind of snapped and I shouted "Stop".
This did not work at all on the children (it has been awhile since mine were this small but I think they knew "stop" when they heard "stop") but it did rouse the adults. In the blink of an eye, I had three now offended parents dashing towards me, all ready to set me straight.
And you know, I really enjoyed this part of it. I had done nothing wrong. Unless you call trying to save small people from themselves wrong. I calmly explained that I had dogs, contractors, bumblebees and a large body of water on my side of the walk and while I didn't think the toddlers knew better, I would appreciate someone supervising better for everyone's sake.
One of the men tried to tell me how stupid I was, the other man looked guilty and the woman said something I'm still thinking about. She said, "when you move into a neighborhood with small children, you have to make allowances".
Huh? First of all, I'm reasonably certain that whichever house she lives in wasn't even built when we moved here last year. And what about allowances for cranky oldish ladies who don't want their gardens pilfered or other peoples children injured?
Really, is it just me?
And that got me thinking about something I been hearing from a few of my neighbors. They (and this is not everyone but a few who are loud about it) are upset about our pond side duck and geese population. They string out little barriers (that the geese fly over) and are now spraying some sort of goose repellent on their lawns. I don't mind the geese at all. I knew when we moved here that the fowl came with the water and I enjoy them immensely. And if the price for this is picking up a little goose poop, then so be it.
Geese are easy to figure out, they fly, they swim, they eat a little grass and then they poop. They are as predictable as two year olds. What I can't figure out is the people who should know better.
And I'm not going to let anyone mess with this:
P.S. - Closet Day #1:
In their defense, it was only a few hours and all the lumber (which is piled nearby) had to be lifted through the front window - 16 feet off the ground.
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